The Circumstances Of Love.
How To Find The Situations That Might Bring Love.
Your natal chart gives many hints pointing to the circumstances of love to knock on your door. You only have to (learn to) "read" your natal horoscope. We will be happy to help you hereby...
An age-old rule in astrology states that the signs point to your (internal) disposition and attitude while the houses point to the environment and (external) circumstances. The signs are "fixed", the houses "move" around.
From our own experience, we can confirm the validity of this very important and much neglected rule.
But, what does this mean to your love life?
If the houses describe the environment or external circumstances, we should be able to find the external events and situations that lead to love and romance.
We only have to find the sign that signifies love and romance and look at the house position it is in.
We all know that Venus is the planet of "love" (actually, it's rather the planet of relating) but what about the sign of love? Love that is playful, yet comes straight from the heart.
The sign of love is Leo, this fixed fire sign, symbolizing burning charcoal that never extinguishes... Leo symbolizes the internal life force, the heart and creative self-expression.
Love IS creative self-expression!
So, the sign of love definitely is Leo.
That's why the house cusp Leo is on will point to the circumstances that lead to love and romance!
If Leo is on your 3rd house cusp, love is seldom far away from your place of residence. It may be in your neighbourhood, in the same street or not far off. You may fall in love with younger people or students as well.
If Leo is on your 6th house cusp of working environment and co-workers, you'll find love in your working environment (almost always a co-worker is involved).
Also, Leo on the 12th house cusp brings love and work together, but this time in quite another way. Don't forget to use the derivative house meanings here.
The 12th house is the 6th house (of working environment) of the 7th house (the others, the people you encounter and meet). Also, it's the 7th of the 6th house.
Put in other words, your 12th house points to clients and customers! So, no doubt that Leo on the 12th house brings love and romance with a client or customer.
That's why Leo on the 1st house often brings romance with a brother or sister of a friend of yours. The first is the 3rd house (sibling) of the 11th house (of friends). Also, it's the 11th (friends) of the 3rd (your siblings), connecting love with the friend of a sibling.
Leo on the 7th house connects romance and love with social gatherings and meetings. Also, public places where people gather, where there is "an audience" (the movies, the theatre, manifestations, concerts,...).
Leo on the 8th house cusp connects love and romance with a sibling (3rd house) of a co-worker or employee (6th house).
Leo on the 9th house often denotes romantic affairs with a member of your family-in-law. Also, people living away from your place of residence (be it in another town, state, county or country) bring romance into your life.
Leo on the 10th house brings love and romance with your employer or boss. Also, you may find love with older people, especially if you are a woman.
Leo on the 11th house relates love and romance to the organisations and groupings you're a member of. friends may become lovers. As the 11th house also is the 3rd house of the 9th house, pay attention not to fall in love with your brother- or sister-in-law.
Just be a little creative to find the true meaning of Leo on the different house positions.
And, you may ask, what if Leo is intercepted in a house?
This is a very important indication.
Interceptions almost always denote something secret or hidden or something that is not disclosed or that is unvisible. Also, interceptions point to things that are fenced in, that are in-between something.
If Leo is intercepted, your love life will unfold in a secret or a hidden way. Also, there may be a love triangle (you are fenced in or in-between someone else).
You'll be astonished to see how valuable these delineations are and how much more insight you will gain.
Is It One-Way-Love
Or Reciprocated Love?
How Astrology Helps You To Find Out!
One way love is unreciprocated love that you want to avoid before you burn out needlessly, reaching devastating levels of heartbreak and self-destruction.
Astrology can help to find out in a snap if you might experience unrequited love with someone else.
In doing a chart comparison between two people it's always best to focus on the standouts to find the essence of the relationship.
Many times clients ask and wonder: is this love, is it just friendship or sympathy or is it lust...
Astrology can tell you.
One of the most important factors in a chart comparison, among others, is the analysis of the planets and bodies that conjunct the angles (Ascendant, MC, Descendant and IC) in the natal chart of the other person.
This is one of the best indications of attraction between two people and this should never be neglected when you compare two charts for mutual attraction.
The analysis of the planets and bodies that conjunct the angles of the other person (orb 6° but the closer the orb the better) describes whom you are attracted to and vice versa.
To a lesser extent, the other aspects (squares, and especially sextiles or trines) can be important too ON CONDITION that they are exact. In this article we will only focus on the most important aspect of all: the conjunction.
The rule goes as follows: the person whose angles are conjunct a planet or body in the natal chart of the other person, is in love or feels highly attracted to the other person.
The more the conjunction is exact (0°00' - 0°01'), the more powerful and irresistible attraction and overwhelming love becomes.
While an orb of 6° still works, we do prefer smaller orbs and much more prefer an orb of 3°. The reason is that a wider orb may be overruled by other exact aspects and/or midpoints. FYI: exact midpoints between two persons always overrule the aspects!
If you read the articles published on our web site, you will know how much we pay attention to very very small orbs and exact aspects! This works and will keep you to the very basics and standouts too.
Example: when the MC of person A is conjunct Venus of person B, then person A is in love with person B. B will only be in love with person A (reciprocal love) if his/her angles too are conjunct a planet or body of person A.
So, if in the chart comparison you only find that planets of one person aspect an angle in the natal chart of the other person, than you do know that there is just one way love or unrequited and unreciprocated love!
If in the chart comparison, we find that planets of a person conjunct an angle of the other person AND a planet of the other person conjuncts an angle of the 1st person, then we know there is reciprocated or shared love.
The most important bodies to conjunct an angle in the natal chart of another person are the Moon and Venus. Both bodies bring real love to the foreground.
- The Moon points to a comfort zone, something that is familiar and is related to the one you un- and subconsciously turn to.
- Venus denotes adorable love. It cannot get better than this. If you have Venus conjunct an angle in the chart of the other person, this is the purest love possible.
Aside from the Moon and Venus, any other planet or body (the Sun, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune or Pluto) can conjunct the other's agles too, which is also good an indication of attraction.
- Neptune brings devotion and longings.
- Mars is related to physical attraction but may also result in physical violence if other configurations point to it.
- Jupiter brings tolerance in some way.
- Mercury is related to mental stimuli and insight.
- The Moon's Nodes are highly important too and can bring kind of a fated attraction.
- Also, when the angles of one partner conjunct the angles of the other person, you may be magnetically and irresistably attracted to each other.
In our research, we found this combination in numerous instances between married people, especially when one of the angles is exactly conjunct one of the other person's angles.
Almost always, in an almost infallible way, people whose angles (all 4 angles) coincide and thus are exact, are destined to marry. The love relationship will last forever too (there will be no divorce that is).
Do know that, when there is one way love, the "planet person" may just feel sympathy for the "angle person" (and not love) and may (easily) quit the relationship for another person/lover.
Mind though that attraction as such has nothing to do with endurability or lasting love. It's not because a planet of the other person conjuncts one of your angles and vice versa, that you will build a lasting love union.
A planet conjunct an angle is just a very strong and powerful indication of attraction and when the Moon or Venus are involved, there is love from one side (one way love).
Also, the "angle person" is the most vulnerable one, because his/her feelings of love are triggered. This may result in unrequited love and lover's burnout, denoting that the "angle person" does EVERYTHING to satisfy the (needs of the) "planet person." No need to say that this drains the own energy field.
If love is not reciprocated, the "angle person" may hopelessly chase a fata morgana, fill a bottomless bottle.
Though there may be sympathy from the "planet person", consider that sympathy is NOT love and the feelings are not of the same kind, intensity and "frequency"!
This way, there is no balance between two people resulting in love to become a very painful and even destructive experience for the "angle person."
There is nothing more painful than love that is not returned, not reciprocated and it's best to advice the "angle person" to do everything possible to let the "planet person" go.
There is no need to chase something one cannot obtain.
There is no way to force fate because that's just going against the flow of life and higher energy fields we cannot change or overpower. We all must learn to go with the flow and not go against it. It's senseless to burn ourselves out and make our own life a misery.
You may ask, how can this all be clarified?
Our theory (!) is that the angles (and house cusps) are sensitive points that receive or suck energies while planets and bodies radiate or send energies.
If radiating energies from the "planet person" are received by the "angle person", it triggers a charge or a vibe. This sending-receiving combo acts like a totally irresistible magnetic North-South pole attraction.
When the receiving angles coincide, this may result in sucking energies which result in a vacuum that glues two people together.
Planetary combinations (conjunctions and aspects) are a lower kind of polarized combinations, resulting in minor attractions. That's why we assume that planetary inter-aspects are less important than planet-angle combinations and inter-aspects.
Here too Nature seems to be based on a hierarchy (in order of importance, the most important and powerful combo above):
- coinciding angles
- coinciding angles and bodies
- coinciding bodies/planets